The argument about the dishes isn't about the dishes.

You know this. The presenting complaint is never the real issue. The fight about household labour is actually about respect, identity, gender expectations, and economic power within the relationship.

Yesbrainer is not a clinical tool — but it can be a thinking tool for the therapist between sessions. Run a recurring conflict pattern through the lenses. The Social lens reveals the community norms each partner internalised. The Cultural lens reveals the family scripts they're unconsciously performing. The Economic lens reveals the power dynamics created by income disparity. The Ethical lens reveals whose autonomy is being compromised.

You already think in multiple frames. This tool just holds them all at once while you do.