Two people. Seven dimensions of disagreement. One tool to map them all.

The legal framework says "equitable distribution." But what's equitable when one partner sacrificed career years for childcare? When the house is in one name but the renovation loan is in both? When the cultural expectation of one family is "the mother keeps the children" and the other's is "equal custody is non-negotiable"?

Yesbrainer won't mediate your case. But running a custody arrangement or asset split through the Social, Economic, Ethical, and Cultural lenses reveals the unstated assumptions each party carries — the ones that block agreement not because they're wrong, but because they've never been named.

Naming the assumption is the first step to resolving the disagreement.